|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I have a deep and abiding belief that there lies within every person the capacity for greatness. I don't mean the old adage that you can become anything you want to be -- I'm more receptive to Peter F. Drucker's admonition to not "waste time trying to put in what the creator left out." But the potential of almost every person is far above his or her level of achievement. That so few rise to their potential does not in any way diminish the validity of this belief. We often see some obscure person rise apparently from nowhere to leadership of a cause or a movement, giving proof to the idea that this capacity lies dormant within each and every one of us.
We've been conditioned by life and by the authority figures we grew up with to recognize and accept ourselves as we are, with severe restrictions on our abilities. We were taught to accept our role and station in life without whining, that the ability to accept and endure our lot shows strength and character. So long as we are prepared to go through life accepting that which fate has thrust upon us as our ordained destiny, so too are we condemned, by our own resignation, our own self depreciation, to the ranks of mediocrity. Others may put me down but the choice to stay down is mine alone.
If we can find within ourselves the courage to challenge fate, to say to her and to the entire world, "I am not ordinary. I will not accept that it is my destiny to live out my life in a humdrum existence, doing things of little consequence, never dreaming, never daring to reach for more.", then we have forced open the door to, at least the possibility of greatness. Leadership writer Paul J. Meyers said, " there is in our world a vast storehouse of plenty which is approached by some with a steam shovel, by others with a tea spoon."
"What", you ask, "if I spend my entire life in pursuit of this fantastic dream yet never achieve it? I will feel robbed, cheated, let down, betrayed."
Who suffers the worse fate, the man who fights to no avail with every fibre of his being for that in which he truly believes or the man who spends his life whining, "I could have been a contender"? "Man's goals should exceed his grasp, else what's a heaven for." (Robert Browning )
Of all the peoples in the world we, who live in Canada and The United States -- countries built on and by the impossible dreams of men and women of vision and courage, determined to soldier on in the face of horrendous odds -- have the least excuse for believing in our limitations, for accepting our fate. With the hundreds of larger than life legends in our heritage, how can we dare to not believe in our own incredible potential?
All of us in North America, indeed throughout the world, must relearn this ability to "dream the impossible dream" and to bring to bear the necessary resources, belief, determination and courage to make our dreams come true.
I am the master of my fate. I am the captain of my soul.(source unconfirmed)
Len McNally is President and founder (in 1996) of The Leadership Centre, dedicated to leadership development, management team building and change management through executive and corporate coaching - from the top floor to the shop floor. With more than thirty years experience in sales, marketing and business development Len has for many years been an avid student of psychology, behavior and motivation. He still reads three to four books a month and has writen several book reviews for Amazon.com. He can be reached at (519) 759-1127 or email: the.leadership.centre@sympatico.ca. Other articles may be seen at: http://www.tlc-leadership.com
How do we make friends? More importantly if dropped into... Read More
Hello Creative Entrepreneurs!I hope this finds you all doing well... Read More
I was accused recently of being unfocused. This lady challenged... Read More
The Law of Attraction teaches us that whatever you focus... Read More
Have you ever had an overwhelming problem or issue? Was... Read More
Is your home office a spare room full of whatever... Read More
Not everyone is programmed to be a successful businessperson, many... Read More
Introduction"Where you find yourself tomorrow is a function of the... Read More
Wildflowers grow from mere dust to reach their full potential.Wildflowers... Read More
In the latter half of the 1800s, when the telegraph... Read More
How a few people become the worst victims of life's... Read More
If you seem to spend much of your life doing... Read More
Ancient lore tells us that there's a magical genie who... Read More
Dear Friend,First of all, let's take a look at the... Read More
Have you noticed how the workplace seems to be a... Read More
On Valentine's Day, or any romantic interlude, lovers should woo... Read More
In the USA we celebrate Thanksgiving on the fourth Thursday... Read More
Our feelings are perceived by means of our sensors, our... Read More
What do people want most in the world? What is... Read More
"Your good name and your reputation are EVERYTHING! ? Protect... Read More
There is an art and a science to prosperity. The... Read More
Aging is inevitable, but its most negative effects can be... Read More
"To succeed, planning alone is insufficient. One must improve as... Read More
I wish you never have to go through that kind... Read More
A man is captive within himself. He dwells in a... Read More
When others are angry with you, loving to you, critical... Read More
During a recent speech, I told the audience that my... Read More
The Great Goddess may be an ancient echo in the... Read More
When you have an important event to attend there are... Read More
Dear Internet friend. Each human being is an incredible piece... Read More
So often we hear people ask the question, "Why does... Read More
There are many systems, psychology analyzes and personality typing in... Read More
Do you know anybody that you consider to be particularly... Read More
The Law of Attraction says that 'like attracts like'. It... Read More
Are you totally in love with your life?Whatever your current... Read More
You get what you attract ? with your thoughts, words,... Read More
I've written this article specifically for individuals contemplating change with... Read More
Invisible braces, like Invisalign, are most popular among adults. For... Read More
What do we all strive for in life? Success! Success... Read More
How many of us have ever felt that we've thrown... Read More
If you always do what you've always done, you'll always... Read More
Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure,... Read More
In earlier articles, I've often spoken about the supreme importance... Read More
"Imagine a funeral. The preacher's giving the eulogy. And suddenly,... Read More
You limit yourself. Yes, it is true. Each day you... Read More
Very often in relationships we do not seem to be... Read More
The late Cuban singer and queen of salsa, Celia Cruz,... Read More
Truth To Live By:What truths do you live by? Are... Read More
Prosperity is management of positive energy. It's individual capacity to... Read More
Using affirmations can be a very powerful tool. You can... Read More
Attraction |