Unlock Your Inner Diva for Dating Success

There's something sexy about a powerful, take-charge woman who knows what she wants and how to get it! To be an intriguing and sexy Decisive Diva you must develop within yourself the Three E's of Feminine Power: Erotic Power, Economic Power and Emotional Power. Learn how to unlock your own Inner Diva and power date your way to a great relationship.

Erotic Power means you constantly draw from the limitless reservoir of self-respect, serenity and sensuousness at your core. When you get this down you have a mysterious, self-contained air about you that's irresistible to men. They open doors for you and treat you like a queen or a goddess.

It has nothing to do with your size or shape. It's all about the attitude you exude. Self-confidence is just as sexy in a woman as it is in a man.

Economic Power means you earn your own income and responsibly live within your means. You do not depend on a partner to provide for you or rescue you. You must have the financial power to walk away from a relationship if it goes sour.

Emotional Power means you exercise a reasonable amount of control over your thoughts and emotions. You don't let your fears and weaknesses rule your life. You have the strength to live comfortably without a man until you find the right one who is worthy of you.

A woman who has awakened her Inner Diva is a woman who respects and values herself. She does not waste time on a man who will not be able to meet her needs. She uses her head to look at the facts about a man's character and behavior as she dates him. When all signals are a go, she then allows her heart to open and lead the way.

When you embrace the Three E's, you'll be able to date productively and be objective about the men you meet. Dating is not about you trying to please him. It's about him trying to please you. Let him audition for the plum role of co-starring with you in your already wonderful life.

Barbara Wright Abernathy

America's authority on female-led relationships, author of "Venus On Top: Women Who Are Born to Lead and the Men Who Love Them." Get FREE chapters at: http://www.Venus-On-Top.com

Barbara Wright Abernathy is CEG (Chief Executive Goddess) of the Venus On Top Society, a social network for take-charge women and supportive men who enjoy female-led relationships.

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