5 Ways to Transform Your Struggles Into Victories

Have you read the famous quote, "Every struggle is a victory"? It was stated by an extraordinary person who overcome great challneges and achieved greatness - her name was Helen Keller.

In this brief article we will explore 5 key aspects for turning your Struggles into Victories. These pointer's have been scientifically validated by Dr Paul G Stoltz in his book: "Adversity Quotient".

1. Manage your Emotions

The first step to dealing with a challenge is to manage your emotions. In challenging times we often feel a sense of overwhelm, helplessness or a wide range of other emotions. We need to manage these emotions, in order for us to be able to think clearly about the situation.

You can manage your emotions in a few ways. You could distract yourself until you regain your composure, you could change your environment, do some exercise, listen to soothing music, eat hot foods, take a nice relaxing bath or help someone else.

2. Get the Facts

What happened? What caused this situation? Which part was caused by me, and which part was caused by others? What options exist? How have other people in similar situations, solved similar problems? What could I do to improve things, even if it only makes a small difference? Information is key to making right choices.

3. Do something to Gain at least a little Control

Do something, however small to gain at least some control over the situation. You can ask yourself: What could I do to gain even a little control over this situation? What little thing could I do to influence this situation? Then do it!

4. Do something to Limit the Reach

No matter how bad a situation may appear, there is almost always a way to limit its impact. Napolean Hill said, "In every adversity lies the seed of equal, or even greater benefit." Even the worst situations, can be turned to good, all you need to do is wonder about, how can this situation be used to my advantage? How can I limit the reach of this situation? How can I limit how long this situation needs to endure?

When you have these answers take decisive action. Taking action fills you with hope and a sense that you can do something about the situation.

5. Take it One Step at a Time

The final principle of dealing with challenges is to take it one step at a time. Helen Keller who lost both her sight and her hearing while still a very young child, used this principle to great affect. She completed a university degree, learnt several languages including classical Greek, became a world famous author and was called, "The Greatest Woman of our Age", by Winston Churchill. Whilst completing her university degree and facing almost unbelievable obstacles, she would simply continue.

She would fight one battle at a time, and slowly but surely get through the challenge. Her life attests to the power of this approach. In a similar way take it one day at a time, strive to do at least one thing every day, no matter how small and you will notice your situation change.

Conclusion

Dr Paul G Scholtz said, "Adversity fuels greatness." As you think about this article, you may begin to wonder how you can apply these principles to your own life. You may wonder how you can turn your own obstacles into victories. You may wonder what one little thing you can do to gain some control over your situation, and grow and develop, and do something great, something really important, because deep down inside every single one of us knows, that we are meant to fulfil a unique and wonderful destiny.

Destin Lucas is an internationally-recognized writer, speaker and co-founder of Dawning Truth ? a breakthrough success modeling program for dramatically accelerating your personal development. If you want to achieve greatness visit http://www.greatnesscircle.com

In The News:


New York Times

Photos From Depression-Era Playland
New York Times, United States - 2 hours ago
Even war and catastrophe won't dampen the human need to have fun, as photographs from Depression-era Playland suggest. The photographs, taken by contracted ...

3 questions can spot possible postpartum depression
The Punch, Nigeria - 16 hours ago
By Agency reporter Three simple questions were just as good as conventional screening for identifying potential postpartum depression among new mothers. ...

Bild.de

Angelina Jolie suffering from postnatal depression
Sify, India - Sep 4, 2008
Hollywood actress Angelina Jolie is struggling with depression ever since the birth of her twins Vivienne and Knox two months ago. The actress is exhausted ...
Angelina Jolie Faces Post-Natal Depression TopNews
Angelina Jolie 'suffering post-natal depression' Melbourne Herald Sun
Angelina Jolie Slipped into Depression after Twins Birth? TransWorldNews (press release)
Marie Claire.co.uk - Entertainmentwiseall 69 news articles

A Childhood During the Depression Years -- New Memoir is About a ...
MarketWatch - 23 hours ago
The stories took place during the Depression and drought in the 1930s. The author is the only living member of her family mentioned in these pages. ...

Depression : Some tips to face it
The New Nation, Bangladesh - 3 hours ago
Depression is a common mental disorder that presents with depressed mood, loss of interest or pleasure, feelings of guilt or low self-worth, disturbed sleep ...

What's the Connection Between Parkinson's Disease and Depression?
The Ledger, FL - 39 minutes ago
University of Cincinnati researchers are looking beyond the obvious to find out whether depression worsens the progression of Parkinson's disease. ...

Cramer: Fannie, Freddie Takeover Changes the Game
TheStreet.com - 8 hours ago
In other words, not since the Great Depression, but including the Great Depression. That's how important it was for houses to appreciate. ...
US to take control of Fannie and Freddie: reports Washington Post
Fannie Mae & Freddie Mac Shareholders Look Doomed (FNM, FRE) Dividend.com
Coming Week: Rough Seas Ahead TheStreet.com
all 4 news articles

Diabetes not associated with depression
Online - International News Network, Pakistan - 5 hours ago
ISLAMABAD: People with diabetes are no more likely than the general population to have depression, according to study results reported in the journal ...

'Depression' on Booster field moves game to West Port
Ocala, FL - Sep 5, 2008
Marion County School District spokesman Kevin Christian said the depression was the most concerning of three trouble spots on the field. ...
Potential sinkhole at Booster moves game to West Port Ocala
West Port holds off Vanguard, 7-0 Ocala
At last, county's high school teams return to gridiron Ocala
all 6 news articles

Bowel disease and depression
NDTV.com, India - Sep 5, 2008
... was found that the IBD patients had higher rates of panic disorder, generalised anxiety disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and major depression. ...
depression - Google News

Depression After A Heart Attack

There are several factors can lead to depression after heart... Read More

Raise Your Feeling Frequency with a Loving Smile

In every moment of our life we have the choice... Read More

Chronic Fatigue Syndrome And Depression Are Not The Same Thing!

Chronic Fatigue Syndrome is a... Read More

A Simple Cure For Anxiety And Depression

Our innate desire is to be happy, and when we... Read More

Suicide Prevention: 12 Universal Laws

The Law of PermanenceSuicide is always a permanent solution to... Read More

Seven Steps to Good Mental Health

Psychological well-being is something that we all have a right... Read More

When Your Mind Develops A Mind Of Its Own

We've all been there? One minute your listening intently as... Read More

How to Get Rid of Your Worries: 5 Golden Rules and a Warning

Suresh was a worried person when he came to me... Read More

Everyday I have the Blues: A Medical Intuitive look at Depression

It may come in waves, it may control our lives.... Read More

Reclaiming Your Life From Anxiety Symptoms

Only somebody who has lived with anxiety ? as either... Read More

Natural Remedies For Depression

It is true that forms of depression cannot be avoided,... Read More

FDA Nears Completion of Review of Vagus Nerve Stimulation For Chronic Depression

On June 2 at 8:00 pm ET, Reuters news service... Read More

Depression in Long Term Care Heart Patients Often Goes Untreated

Cardiologists, other doctors and long term care staff might be... Read More

Do You Think You Have Depression?

Do you have days where nothing can make you happy?... Read More

Can You Overcome Depression?

There are many things that happen within the body when... Read More

What?s The Latest on Suicide Risk and Antidepressants For Children?

FDA confirms some antidepressants increase suicide risk in some children.... Read More

Wellbutrin For Depression: When Its More Than Just The Blues

We all have blue days:We're missing someone we've lost, the... Read More

7 Things You Can Do Immediately To Ease Depression

1. Get out now and walk fifteen minutes. It will... Read More

5 Tips to Reduce Depression

While war and poor economic conditions begin to affect people... Read More

Are the Benefits Worth the Costs?

Schizophrenia suffers around the world have benefitted greatly with the... Read More

Omega 3 Fatty Acids and Depression - A Natural Treatment

A new research study has again shown that a diet... Read More

Depression is the Number One Cause of Disability in the United States

According to the World Health Organization, 4 of the 10... Read More

Chronic Depression: Disease or Charcter Flaw?

A major survey on depression symptoms from the National Mental... Read More

Depression Keeps 19 Million Adults From Being Productive

Approximately 19 million American adult workers allow depression to limit... Read More

Is it ADHD or is it Depression?

During the assessment process it is of great importance for... Read More