|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
In today's fast-paced life, the wins usually go to those with exceptional skills and abilities. The old quote is true, "The race is not always won by the swift and the strong, but that is the way to bet."
With this in mind, and with your desire to become increasingly successful, here are some ways to accelerate your abilities, thus enabling you to achieve greater and greater things.
Become dissatisfied with your current state. Growth for growth's sake is good. Those who will achieve much are those who say to themselves, "I want to grow. I want to be better. And I am willing to do what it takes to get there. This current state is not enough!" This dissatisfaction will create for you an insatiable drive to do what it takes to get your abilities to the next level.
Visualize the benefits of increased abilities. Put them at the forefront of your mind. This will saturate your mind with the motivation that it will take for you to do what it takes to increase your abilities. What good will come out of my increased ability? How will I be better off as well as the others around me? The answers to these questions act as the carrot before the horse, moving you forward.
Understand your weaknesses. If you want to improve, one of the best ways is to start with some area that you aren't particularly good at. This is the "shoring up method." Sometimes it is easier to improve something you aren't good at that something you are. And the gains will still look great for your overall situation! Take some time to consider what areas you are weakest in and focus in on them for a while. The results will obviously be much more pronounced than getting better at something you have already somewhat mastered.
Attempt greater levels of what you are already good at. Another tact to take would be to stretch yourself in an area that you already have some skill and ability in. What areas do you excel in? Now understand that when you leave the weaker areas weak and make extraordinary gains in one area, then you will be moving more toward "specialist" rather than "generalist." That is okay, but needs to fit in with your overall goals.
Commit time each day to improvement. Steady improvement is the way to go. In fact, you may not see improvement for days or weeks. You may feel like you are failing each time. But alas, eventually you will get it and your skill will increase to the next level. The key is day in, day out, spending time working on improving. Even five minutes a day equals a half hour a week, 2 hours a month. That adds up! Remember, Practice, practice, practice.
Seek out and spend time with someone who has greater ability than you. One of the best things to do to increase your ability is hang out with people who are already more skilled than you. Watching, them, studying them, interacting with them, even competing with them will make you better. As in sports, to improve, you play with people better than you, not worse. They will raise you to a new level. Who around you can you get involved with who will help you with your ability?
Take a class or hire a coach. Go to school my friend. Take a course at a local college or vocational institute. Take a class online. Hire one of the many coaches available today. Pick a specific skill you would like to improve upon and find someone who is a specialist in that area. At the very least, pick up some audio or videotapes to help you grow.
Be the tortoise, not the hare. Slow but sure. Take your time, do it right. Keep going in the right direction. Learn your craft correctly. Don't give up quality for speed. The whole idea of acceleration is this way: Slow start, work up to high speeds, go the distance. Luckily life isn't a sprint but a marathon!
Hope these ideas help you as you commit to accelerating your abilities!
About The Author:
Chris Widener is a popular speaker and writer as well as the President of Made for Success, a company helping individuals and organizations turn their potential into performance, succeed in every area of their lives and achieve their dreams.
To see Chris "live" at the upcoming Jim Rohn Weekend Event as he speaks on the subject of Secrets of Influence go to http://Chris-Widener.InspiresYOU.com/ or call 800-929-0434.
1. Constant affirmation without accountability is a sure-fire way to... Read More
Continued....When I turned 18 years old, I met a new... Read More
There once was a happy monkey wandering the jungle, eating... Read More
You're a remarkable person. But, you knew that already. Still,... Read More
Wreaths are like rings. They represent the Universal Circle ("Let... Read More
Water is the source of life, yet so few of... Read More
Self esteem.Now there's a well used and little understood term.... Read More
What are you passionate about? We didn't ask if you... Read More
Surfing is mindfulness in action. Riding the biggest waves is... Read More
What is essential in your life? This question contains one... Read More
Treasures of a lifetime...At the end of your life will... Read More
1. Once a week, visit somewhere you've never been before.... Read More
Only twenty years ago, people would casually stroll the neibourhood,... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of June 23,... Read More
Some people live in and talk about the past so... Read More
I just got back from Colorado where I spent a... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of February 24,... Read More
Mature selfishness is the cornerstone of effectively living with passion... Read More
Janine Wachowski, a long-time resident of South Elgin, Illinois, drives... Read More
This week I did a radical thing. I bought a... Read More
There is a story about a little girl who suffered... Read More
Two-year-old Owen goes to speech therapy twice a week. The... Read More
Every morning I excitedly get out of bed. Just a... Read More
Rejection! Who hasn't experienced the horrible feeling of being rejected?... Read More
The greatest achievements were obtained by those who took one... Read More
I'm currently listening to The Secrets of the Power of... Read More
Green symbolises growth. Growth requires change and transformation. This article... Read More
People often ask me how they can improve their lives.I... Read More
I find of particular interest in the Eastern Religions many... Read More
When was the last time you smiled at a stranger?When... Read More
A LOST WORLD OF SOULWhen you hear the word 'divination',... Read More
As I drove home from work late one wintry afternoon,... Read More
Jonathan:This is my brother, Jonathan. They walked into the room... Read More
A WORD FITLY SPOKENA word fitly spoken is like apples... Read More
You're a remarkable person. But, you knew that already. Still,... Read More
Often in our society, we are bombarded with the lives... Read More
Continued...After that I stayed with him still and when he... Read More
INSPIRATION can be a powerful thing. It can keep... Read More
Here's a quote from the late great columnist Sydney Harris... Read More
Today, August 22, 2005, I am clean and sober for... Read More
It was 1:30 A.M. on Friday, December 6, 1991. Patrolman... Read More
When starting any enterprise or business, whether it is full-time... Read More
Mankind's ability to give life to lifeless objects, gives rise... Read More
What is social acceptance? Why is it so important? What... Read More
Boy, do I feel old. Or at least older.No, I... Read More
The ocean liner Achille Lauro sailed perpetually under a dark... Read More
This is a message from an Angel. Can you relate?... Read More
At SPIRIT Connections, we believe that the most powerful tool... Read More
Just imagine how it would feel to be successful...., to... Read More
My students and clients have constantly heard me stress that... Read More
Inspirational |