|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
So much has been written about success that one often gets confused about what success is all about. Success is such a personal thing that it may mean different things to different people. Yet we need to have a simple definition which should apply to all successful people and situations. The ultimate purpose of being successful is to take pride in one's achievements and be happy; and I think one of the best description has been put forward by Ralph Waldo Emerson.
"To laugh often and much;
To win the respect of intelligent people
and the affection of children;
To earn the appreciation of honest critics
and endure the betrayal of false friends
To appreciate beauty;
To find the best in others;
To leave the world a bit better, whether by
a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition;
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived;
This is to have succeeded."
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Here is the simplicity with which such a complex subject like success has been explained . If we just analyze every line we would realize that each aspect adds up to a value leading up to a successful life.
And this is the challenge of success. To have such values as to 'laugh often' or 'to find the best in others' is being successful. So simple yet when we look at ourselves and all around us we will find very few people laughing often or appreciating beauty.
The other day I met a young person working for a social organization on lowly wages hardly eking out a decent living. But what I found amazing was he talked very positively and with love to everyone he met, and he met a lot of people on our short walk. There was no bitterness in him because of his economic status nor any disgust for his work which paid him low wages. He did his work with great love. When I praised him for his positive and sunny nature he was thrilled and became a great friend though we had just met an hour back and went out of the way to help me with my assignment.
It is often the most difficult thing to praise anyone. We may admire so many people and their work but fail to give credit openly or acknowledge and praise the persons concerned.
This is what I did and it was a win win day for both of us. Now let us just think about how much success can be achieved in a day if we follow all of Emerson's success formula.
The challenge of success is to follow the simple values. The few simple things in life will always account for the major successes in our life. It is not to suggest that there are only these simple ideas that would affect our successes but it is our focus on the simple things that will have the greatest impact in our lives. What we read above of Emerson's words are proven wisdom that have flowed down for centuries but yet retained their ageless and timeless relevance.
While success training is becoming more and more complex with new programs with fancy success matrixes or best sellers being touted as the ultimate answer, hitting us everyday, I invite you all to look at the challenge of understanding the simple yet powerful wisdom of the the great thinkers such as Emerson.
About The Author
R.G. Srinivasan is a certified trainer and a management consultant. He is the author of e-books, publishes 3 blogs on health, Home Business and management. He is also a widely published author. Check out his blog at http://home-businessresources.blogspot.com
Trouble, trouble, trouble. Nothing but trouble. The night before, I... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of August 12,... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of October 20,... Read More
Fulfilling your dreams will remain a mirage if you simply... Read More
Buddhists study nothing because they have found that you must... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of May 12,... Read More
The good part of this story is that there is... Read More
IntroductionNearly all employers and human resource professionals are aware of... Read More
The secret power of positive thinkers is their faith. And... Read More
The Emmaus Journal QuietnessAs a state of being, quietness is... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of November 24,... Read More
1. We all have a purpose in this life time.The... Read More
Imagine sitting down in a relaxed setting -- a setting... Read More
I wrote about my life and all that I have... Read More
BONZA BOTTLER DAY is any day when the date and... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of August 19,... Read More
Not long after the beginning a being fell from the... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of September 16,... Read More
Are you ready for a change? Is it time for... Read More
There is an old principle: You reap what you sow.... Read More
"Is it so small a thing To have enjoy'd the... Read More
"Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions.... Read More
What if every experience in your life is sent to... Read More
Many successful persons advise you start your day with a... Read More
Fear is deeply rooted in uncertainty. Think about it; the... Read More
How come, as women, we always second-guess ourselves? Are we... Read More
"The scars you acquire while exercising courage will never make... Read More
At a recent seminar we were asked to imagine if... Read More
As a chef I have a unique perspective on anger.In... Read More
Think of an adventure that you might like to take.... Read More
In the moment of completing a thought or action, it... Read More
I stepped up to the edge and looked down. I... Read More
Each moment in life, "lucky" or "unlucky", is to be... Read More
Emotions are the most powerful forces inside us. Under the... Read More
It was way past 10:00 pm when I came home... Read More
1. Constant affirmation without accountability is a sure-fire way to... Read More
Jeremiah was certainly one of the most distinguished notables of... Read More
It was one of those once-in-a-life-time moments. The entire World... Read More
(Excerpted from the 2004 Jim Rohn Weekend Leadership Event)To really... Read More
Do what you love to do and give it your... Read More
In Berlin a restaurant opens for anorexics and in Buffalo... Read More
It is often difficult to know exactly what to do.... Read More
Ju was physically abused as a child. She lived with... Read More
Are you left with inspiration but no action after hearing,... Read More
The lines below come from this weeks mind treatment, written... Read More
Your Spirit is continuously beaming communications to you. As long... Read More
My friend Hugh Jeffries died. He was a wealthy man.... Read More
Kevin had worked as a barber at The Clipper Joint... Read More
My students and clients have constantly heard me stress that... Read More
Journaling is a powerful tool that can enhance our lives... Read More
Inspirational |